dini79 - there's a really simple solution to the fact that it "makes you feel icky." Don't read it!

Becky - the lesson here is for your to be more explicit in your communication, not condemn the responders. You might want to consider taking criticism seriously, rather than defensively, so that you can be more successful.

Also consider that whether your son had your permission was a great question for us to ask, and it was out of societal love for your son that we questioned the appropriateness of the public display. You should be happy that so many would defend your son, without even knowing him.

Becky, Your blog is just fine. When you write a public blog--and put yourself out there--you inevitably end up in the crosshairs at one time or another. It's just the nature of being in the public eye.

Readers come in all shapes and sizes, flavors and varieties. Sadly, there are some individuals who live to harass. Especially behind the anonymity of a pseudonym on a blog. They will bully, tease, argue, opine, and generally attempt to make everyone else miserable, all under the guise of freedom of speech. Fortunately they are few. Others will be people who disagree, but, perhaps, don't express themselves well "on paper." Then there will be those who truly do take issue with what you say, but are able to be considerate and thoughtful in their dissent. Most, though will read your blog, appreciate what you've written and move on.

Keep writing. Enjoy your blog. The readers do. And the few who don't? Well, they always have the option to click on a different blog.

So sorry for the double-posting. It didn't show up the first time when I clicked on "view your comment", so I posted it again. My bad. Sorry...

dini79, you are SERIOUSLY over-reacting!

dini79...you are SERIOUSLY over-reacting.

Sometimes, we open the door and bashers walk in Becky. Don't take it to heart. I'm a empty nester now too. I know Mich,he's a good young man.

It would be interesting enough to talk about the actual empty nest, how it feels, what is different. There's a good pro blog out there by the same name which I have the feeling you have read. They manage it, and so can you.

I'm sorry, I still don't want bloggers to talk about their families' personal stuff, I still feel icky about it, and there was nothing hateful in my speech. Unless anyone who disagrees is a "hater." Pretty strong language that needs a very strong reason.

Correction Becky, you're a "great mom with a great college age kid."

I feel old. The year I graduated is now the legal drinking age for kids born that year!! WEIRD.