TV Time... out

By LAURA FEIT   Wednesday, April 6, 2011 - 1:32 p.m.

My kids love to watch television. Actually, I enjoy watching a “fill in the blank” marathon all day if I’m sick, but I’m not an Appointment Television Show watcher. Don’t ask me who got kicked off the latest reality program – don’t have a clue.

Now, I’ll admit to plopping my little ones in front of Sesame Street during frantic mornings getting ready for work plus all their stuff together for daycare when one was a toddler and the other baby. I’m even guilty of letting them watch a little extra if I have work to do at night and I just don’t want to argue about what else they can do. But, in general I limit how much time they spend with the television.

My kids are constantly asking to have a television in their bedrooms – a flat screen no less! I didn’t have a television in my bedroom until I was in my 20’s. I just don’t see the point of a television in a child’s bedroom. Why would they play with Lego’s, baby dolls, read a book, or sleep if they can flip on the television?

We also have quite a few TV-FREE nights. We do homework, read, play games - and now that it’s light past 5pm- take walks, play basketball, goof off outside. Of course there is an initial “Awww mom, why can we just watch TV?” when they find it’s a TV Free night, but they get over it or go to their room and sulk. Excessive sulking results in even less TV time by the way.

While we’ll laugh and eat popcorn on a TV night the REALLY fun nights are spent over a cut throat game of UNO that will have my daughter laughing on the floor after she tricks me into thinking she’s got a blue card when it’s actually red and she wins the game.

I’m not anti-television but I don’t think it should be the number 1 activity or constant go-to babysitter. How do you handle the television time with your kiddos?

Laura Feit is the mother of two. She lives in Walworth County and works full time for Gazlo.com. Laura is a community blogger and her opinion is not necessarily that of the The Gazette staff or management.

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gazettefan
Apr 11, 2011 at 1:41 p.m.
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doglover, I have no criticism of teachers, especially considering the problems they have to deal with. It's not your fault that the brain circuitry of your students developed from chronic TV-watching interferes with your teaching skills.

The problem with my TV explanation is that everyone loves and is addicted to TV so much so that TV is immune from being recognized as the cause of ADHD. The psych and drug-industries would have no profit and status if those two abominations would attribute ADHD to parents using TV for a babysitter. I'm sure you can imagine the response you'd get if you made that suggestion to the parents of your students.

And if you don't think the psych and drug-industries exist only for profit and status, consider one of their newest "disorders": Body Dismorphic Disorder. First: why doesn't Obsessive/Compulsive Disorder encompass the heartbreak of BDD? Second: Very clever of the psych and drug-industries to concoct a "disorder" that would attract thousands, if not millions, of people in a society such as ours. Our old friend TV contributes much to that very problem: Superficiality and shallowness: More distractions from reading the Great Books.

doglover
Apr 11, 2011 at 9:21 a.m.
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WOW gazettefan! If I were in the medical field, I might actually take offense to your banter. As it is, my professional opinion stems from BEING one of those teachers for 12 years who has had the challenge to be more entertaining than a television program. If you have ever had the opportunity to work with families and their children who have attention issues, perhaps your "common sense" approach might have more credibility with me.

gazettefan
Apr 8, 2011 at 12:33 p.m.
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doglover, my conclusion about "ADHD" is based on looking at the problem with common sense and intelligence.

And if your "professional" opinion comes from the fact that your profession is as a therapist, it is my opinion that you and your ilk and your psych-industry (including the drug industry) attain profit and status from the creation of false mental disorders and disorders that you and your ilk fail to understand while your true motives are based in the aforementioned profit and status.

joeflint
Apr 8, 2011 at 3:57 a.m.
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Yup, no TV here either.

"Finally, there is some evidence that viewing cartoons has a negative effect on children's attentional abilities."

Thakkar, Garrison, & Christakis. "A Systematic Review for the Effects of Television Viewing by Infants and Preschoolers," Pediatrics, 118, 5, November 2006, pp. 2025-2031.

dini79
Apr 7, 2011 at 8:31 p.m.
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No TV. No TV problems.

prinny68
Apr 7, 2011 at 2:38 p.m.
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I refuse to let my children sit inside and watch the same episode of iCarly or Spongebob unless it's for a few minutes before bed or right away in the morning on a WEEKEND only while they are trying to wake up. In the evenings, the only things we watch are the news or Brewers baseball or Packers football... They are NOT allowed tv on when they go to sleep and in the summer their butts are outside being a kid. I feel bad for kids that don't know how to be outside and how to play, without the video games, tvs, or newest electronic media. Go climb a tree or build a fort or ride a bike. Go get dirty or sweaty and get some fresh air. We wonder why our child obesity level is higher than ever. It's a really sad world to find out your child doesn't know how to play "ghosts in the graveyard" or hopscotch... Or doesn't even know how to play "school" or "house" or "pirates". I remember as a child having a make believe city in my backyard, where we'd pretend to fill our cars(bikes) up with gas, go to a bank(picnic table) to get money(monopoly money) to by stuff for our house(fort behind the garage). It was some of the best memories I have of being a child. And had my mother not kicked us out of the house, off of the tv and told us to go play, we never would've figured out how to be creative and social as a child. I can thank HER for my special childhood experiences.

intrigued
Apr 7, 2011 at 2:10 p.m.
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After my step-kids moved in with us we noticed that sitting and watching TV was keeping them from engaging in their new community and perhaps from making friends. Along with a few other ideas to help them acclimate, we decided to cancel the cable TV. My husband and I rarely had time to watch it anyway. That was in 1998. To this day we still don't have cable or a working antenna. We watch DVDs we check out from the library on our TV. The kids (now adults) are now following in our footsteps. They tend to see TV as a waste of time. I couldn't agree more.

doglover
Apr 7, 2011 at 8:59 a.m.
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gazettefan: I would be the first one to admit that children watch too much television. I would like to know where you get your "research" from that claims that: "Kids show up at school with "ADHD" as a result of the sad combination of kinetic passivity that comprises TV-watching." That is a very inaccurate statement in my personal and professional opinion. Please, cite for me your source so that I can read more about your claim.

gazettefan
Apr 6, 2011 at 5:11 p.m.
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TV has done more to harm to the American mentality than anything else. You can judge what TV does to people by considering the content of more than 90 percent of what's on it.

Kids show up at school with "ADHD" as a result of the sad combination of kinetic passivity that comprises TV-watching. What the teacher does just doesn't measure up to the brain circuitry produced by the first four or five years of TV-watching.

greenst
Apr 6, 2011 at 4:42 p.m.
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We LOVE TV. Too much I would say. But, thanks to the upcoming cost savings cuts by Gov. Walker it was one of the things we chose to cut in preparation for the income loss, among many others. Up went the antenna and out went the cable bill. I have to say its not that bad. In fact we should of done it years ago. TV is great but, it is a complete waste of time. Being the parents of a new born we can't wait to do some of the same activities that get the body and mind moving that you enjoy with your family.

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