On Stabbing victim, suspect had history of problems
Posted on January 4 at 3:18 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
OK, This is Tanya's sister an I have just read all of this stuff.... and to clear the air first of all Tanya and James loved eachother no matter what problems they had and he loved those kids like they were his own. As everyone have read they did have some problems but who don't? It was not bad like that he did things to her and she did things to him. An they knew that, that's why it was easy for them to sit an work those issues out between them two.Now me, Tanya, James ,my husband did everything togather an we know how he got after drinking and we know how Tanya handles that everytime. So for her to let this happpen and go this far, hurts all of us on both sides of the family. Now because this happen, after they left my house from having fun, it really hurt me and my husband. We were the last to see James being James. We know we will never see that again.... I want everyone to know that we love james. He is my brother not brother-n-law......because he was who he was. He came into my family fitting right in and for anyone that knows us, knows that is hard to do. So to his family from me, I love you all because I loved James so much...and from the bottom of my heart I'm sorry this happened to him, to the both of them. But you all know that if the alcohol was not involed and she was able to think before reacting this would not have happpen. She is heart broken because she hurt someone that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with. Things happen for a reason and the reason could be because they both need to change their lifes. God knew that they weren't going to do it by themselves. so he stepped in and did it his way. With James going threw this, now her situation doesn't matter to her. She is worring for and about him. This could be the beginning of a new and better life for the four of them together....that is what I'm wishing for. So I hope everyone realizes after reading this, that it was God working in there relationship so that they could be together the way he planned for them..... happy and without all the alcohol in there lives...... Right now we are trying to except this but it's hard because James has been in our lives for six or more years and what happens to him matters just like it would if it was Tanya. Just please everyone pray for him with a faithful heart so that our lord savior Jesus will hear us. Thank you all..........
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On Stabbing suspect free after posting $5,000
Posted on January 4 at 10:11 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
From The Source: It seems like everyone is pointing fingers but that's not helping the situation. What happened was truly a mistake and yes alcohol did play a big part in it for the both of us that night. Please believe me when I say our relationship wasn't all drama and fights. We did family events with our kids, we helped them with there homework TOGETHER and normal family activities. We had problems I do admit to our mistakes. James and I do love each other dearly so please stop with the bogus comments. No one knows what our relationship was really like unless you know us personally. We both are great persons but just need a little prayed for. Were humans not monsters. I understand James family is very upset because if the tables were turned I don't know how I would handle the same situation. He is a great, and loving man. I speak for the both of us when I say before you all write another hurtful comment just know that there's two sides to a story and you all just heard the ugly version.