HMMM.... i smell pancakes opt.

NURSE4U....p.s. I am so thankful there are people like you in this world that have commpassion and sincerely wish others well. I too am like that, and it is truly hard to find. So, thank you for being who you are.

Thank you NURSE4U for your best wishes, and I sincerely appreciate them. I too wish things could be different, but my brother choses to steal, lie and use drugs and alcohol and I have exhausted myself in finding ways to help him. I can't, only he can. So, there is no bridge that has been burnt, there is only a tunnel my brother needs to crawl out of. I am here with open arms waiting for him, but I can't allow him to rob my family to feed his addictions. JUST CAN'T do it. TRIED, but is really doesn't work. HE needs to find his bottom, and then rise above it. I don't judge him, because that is not my job, I just refuse to enable him. And I also recognize that his condition is a two sided illness, addiction and a mental handicap. I realize that this person I know is no longer my brother, but that of a monster. And until that monster is removed from his being, I can't be a part of his life. I love him, yes, do I enable him....NO!

Optimism, I would like to ask you to clarify something that you wrote please. You stated your brother was severely injured in a car accident. You then stated that you do not talk to him, and he deserves everything that he gets. You then said that you do not judge him. I am hearing conflict in your statements.
Can I make a suggestion? We only have our families and friends and one life. I think it would be beneficial to you and your brother to build that bridge that was burned so long ago. I wish you the best.

I could be wrong, but I would guess the fundraiser is to help with the medical bills. Which as most have pointed out these are teenagers and guess who pays the bills. How anyone saw it as a party for Jason persay needs to really think about it.

Where does it say I judged anyone??? uuummm
I said "drunk drivers deserve everything they have coming to them." Weather it is a small bump on the head, or serious jail time or anything in between, because the drunk driver is old enough to know better, but doesn't care.
Just like sexual offeneders, I DON'T JUDGE THEM, but, by god I WILL never trust them.
...And that is my GOD giving right...

PAKERFAN: I "know" what you meant by the wine, just was making a joke....hehe. Too bad you were too slow to figure out my "pun". SLAVE...Did I NOT say my brother got what he deserved?? Wish you people would read and comprehend before you go on your soapbox. AND SINCE WHEN DID GOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO JUDGE????????

My Dearest optimist.. My Last Blog.. you dont get it. Not wasting my timme anymore. I`m 100% with "slavetosociety". Theres a difference between the 2 accidents an the way they should be treated. Kids being kids an the premeditated, unlawful way that your brother got injured... P.S... The alcohol "wine" isnt what i printed or meant..lol

M.A.D.D. (MOTHERS AGAINST DRUNK DRIVERS.)
You go PACKERFAN stand up and fight for what you beleive in, I do pray for both of those boys on a full recovery...
I don't have any respect, love or sympathy for any kind of DRUNK DRIVERS. If you drink and drive you deserve whatever it is you have coming to you...
As far as Nate and Jason that was just kids being kids, just like if you are riding your bike with no hands, if you hit a rock in your path you know what could happen but it doesn't keep kids from doing it. It is a chance you take... There is NO excuse for drunk driving...

BULLBUD...I see you as well put your two cents in.... :-)

P.S. thanks for the offer of some cheese, but I don't drink wine. :-)

PACKERFAN....I don't know where you came up with the idea that I feel sorry for my brother.....I DON'T EVEN TALK TO HIM because he chooses to live a destructive life. AND YES he was of legal drinking age, and NO the charges weren't dropped, his rap sheet is a long as our arms put together, the only difference is, is that the rock county jail knows he is mentally handicapped, so when he is brought in on warrants.... he is treated a bit gingerly. I think he deserves everything he gets. I don't however, judge or think less of him as a human being. We all make ill decisions at one point or another, most are just fortunate that they don't effect the rest of their lives. I was putting all boys in the same category (my brother included) because they all made "premeditated" decisions that involved danger. I never said I was going to get involved in this fundraiser, I never said anyone else shouldn't, I just said that I don't agree with it. It is basically rewarding bad behavoir...BUT THAT IS MY MY MY MY MY OPINION. I don't try to force my OPINION on anyone. I am sorry that you feel threatened by my OPINION. I do kind of chuckle though at the anger in your typing, I in no way am a negative person, and for you to get so riled up over a few comments that were taken out of context makes me remember just how complex our society is. I WANT TO REITERATE my condolences to both the boys in case that message has somehow gotten lost in this mess of hostility.

1 more thing optimism.. you really have a warped mind; if you think these two incendents are the same an should be treated the same. You just dont get it. I`m betting that since your brother got severly injured.. all his drunk driving charges got dropped! Is that fair? I say throw Nate a big party and i`ll send yya some cheese; to go along with your whine.

Optimism... get a life and quit feeling sorry for your brother. These were two totally seperate incidents. Was ur brother of age to drink?.. you never said. If he was old enuff to drink and got injured.. i cant really say he deserved it.. but drinking; then driving is a premeditated act. There are no accidents when drinking an driving are involved. So.. Once again.. communities dont throw parties for people who are reckless, stupid, ignorant, and drinks, drives, gets injured.

Optimism did anyone tell you that you had to do anything for fund-raiser. No I don't think so. But you did sorry you but your 2 cents in.

Please take into account the feelings of those who are the friends and family of Nathan and Jason before you post hurtful things, as well as Nathan and Jason themselves.
The definition of accident:
1. a. An unexpected and undesirable event especially one resulting in damage or harm.
b. An unforeseen incident.
2. Lack of intention; chance.

It would seem that this was in fact, an "accident" as defined by Webster's Dictionary. I personally think it was a tradgedy, and should be seen as such.

I am deeply saddenned by the posts here. Nathan is a teenager. Jason is a teenager. Research has shown that teens typically live in the present and do not see consequences of potentially dangerous situtations. The mentality of teenagers tends to be, "It can not happen to me."
Nathan has been through a tremendous ordeal. Therapy is extremely difficult. I suport the fundraiser 100%.
I would imagine that Jason did not have any malicious intent while driving the vehicle. I think the justice system will take that into account.
My prayers are with both families.

No Water...I meant my daughter and I were having a field day here in our home trying to figure out what she was saying. That's all. I have no idea who she is.

Just to clarify in case PACKERFAN doesn't take the time to back up and read from beginning to end, I never once said I think that Nathan dosen't deserve "prayer", I said that I don't think that he deserves to have a fund raiser set up for him. This was an accident of curcumstance....not an unexpected accident. The risks at hand where fully known before the boys decided to try this stunt. A REAL accident would be a family minding their own business driving to the zoo on a Sunday afternoon and a semi's tire blows out and runs into the family. That is an accident.

And really, if grammer checking floats your boats, by all means, the elementary schools are always looking for teacher's aides. Jeesh, get over yourselves.

All I ask PACKERFAN.....RE-READ what I wrote.....no John Kerryism here...I don't flip flop, I was quoting someone about only a year in huber....start at the beginning so you understand what is going on. Also, communities shouldn't throw parties for people who willfully jump onto the hood of a car and surf across the parking lot or for a person who ended up mentally handicap from drunk driving....I said that both my brother and these boys should be treated the same....they both are suffering because of ill judgement. You need to really read things and understand what you are reading before you jump on the high horse.

Booelk- thank you for injecting first hand clarity into this situation. My thoughts are with your son, for doing the right thing and taking responsibility for his actions. If he is going to be made an example, it should be how REAL men own their actions. I, for one, applaud his bravery and encourage him to keep attending therapy. Time will heal this wound. I agree with truth1, the term "accident" applies to this tragic situation.

waterfrontdean...sorry, I wasn't trying to embarrass you, quit being so defensive. Re-read my post. My 16 year old daughter is the one who is correcting you on your grammar. But since you brought it up...how old are you and what is your education level? I said I agreed with you on the subject, but was simply pointing out how all of us...including you...can make mistakes! Btw...I have no idea who Sarah07 is. If you would have read my post to begin with and not taken it so personally, you would have realized that.

Yes, all it was was a mistake.
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Something for others to learn what NOT to do.
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This is one of the few cases where the word "accident" actually fits.
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it's great to hear that dispite a youthful mistake that nearly cost Nathan his life, he's doing as well as he is... should he and Jason not have done the stunt?? yes, but, people can't say that they haven't done something without thinking out the full consequences when they were younger... don't critisize when they were only being kids... they made a mistake... we all do...

Another thing Optimism.. Communities dont throw parties for people who are stupid and willfully drink and drive and end up injured.

Let's stop the antagonism. This article is sapposed to be about how well Nate is doing. He is a walking miracle. As for an update on Jason, he is not one to show emotion, but this is eating him up inside. He and Nate speak daily and I know that all Jason wants is his friend back. Thank God he is. They love eachother like brothers and they both made a stupid mistake. Jason will be held accountable for his part in this. He wants to be. He has never wanted to "get away with anything". As his mom, I am proud of the way he has stepped up to the plate and taken responsibility for what happened. Did they realize how dangerous this was, maybe not. But they do now. Maybe Drivers Education should start teaching about this type of accident also.

Hey Optimism.. Your opinions flip, flop more than pancakes at Ihop. First you say Jason "WILL ONLY HAVE TO DO A YEAR in huber".. then you say he only deserves a ticket? What got me most is when you said Nathan didnt "premeditate" his injuries. Jumping on the hood of a truck willfully is certianly a 1st step to injury. Now.. Jason and Nathan are still very good friends. Jason visited Nate in the hospital every chance he got. I know.. I`m Jasons Uncle. All you peeps are correct when you say both kids were at fault.. both have lifetime sentences. Jason is hurting now as bad as when it happened. He`s in Therapy trying to deal with this whole situation.

don't look now people, but the grammer and spelling police have been awoken so shape up or be critisized! I really wish you picky people would get A life and stay with the topic at hand! A young person has recovered enough by miracle and has now come home, although it does sound like he has A long road ahead of him, I wish him the best of luck and health.

Waterfrontdean...lol..I can't help but say this...my sixteen year old daughter wants you to start using the correct form of you're (your would be the possessive form)...we are both laughing since we are having a hayday here with sarah07. Too funny!!!

Sarah...I am having a really hard time trying to read what you post. I am not making sense of it...except your general tone. Please slow down and write in sentences. Are you really young? Grade school...maybe junior high?

I completely understand what Optimism and waterfrontdean are saying, yes, I am really glad that Nate is doing so well, but we need to be wishing the best for Jason as well. Unfortunately, both boys made very bad decisions and they will both live with the consequences of their choices for the rest of their lives.

My prayers are with you Nathan.

Go doglover!

Nate, glad to hear you are home and well on your way to recovery... Nate and Jason you are both in my thoughts and prayers.
As far as those people who think that Jason should get a ticket or jail time for his punishment of silliness well guess what smart people I bet that lil' man has suffered a great deal from seeing one of his friends go from almost death to the changes he and his family are going through right now and will be going through forever. (Nate don't ever give up just, remember GOD is pulling for you...)
Jason will also never be the same because he has to live with that guilt forever, so for all you folks that think Jason isn't being punished think again because I bet he is beating himself up on the inside pretty bad...

As for you Jason (if you, a family member or a friend reads this) remember there is alot of people that do supourt you in this and believe in you, so PLEASE stay strong and DON'T ever give up, and I really think you suffered enough the LAW needs to back up off of you...

waterfront: Careful how you correct people. I understand your attempted point being made to Sarah07, however it was very harsh and unnecessary. I said to be careful on your corrections because it is "capital" letter, not "capitol" (that is a govt. building) and when you said "your an idiot", it should be "you're".

I have seen Nathan almost every day thru his crisis. No one should be bickering about who is right or wrong. Jason will live with his guilt as has been already posted. Just seeing Nate every day made me believe in miracles as he is a miracle and a lesson learned to all. Please let these families have their peace and start the healing that they all need and deserve. These are good kids who made a bad choice and will both pay for it for the rest of their lives as will their families and friends. Please let them be!!!

I also wish the best to both boys.
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A tragic accident due to foolishness, it wasn't WILLFUL recklessness like is the cause of so many of these car wrecks that kill/maim innocent motorists.

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I certainly hope readers understand that I (SarahB) am in no way connected, related or acquainted with Sarah07. Thank you.

To tell you the truth, I don't see all this as "complaining". Actually, it is the Opinions of the comminities, and obviously everyone has their own opinion. That is the purpose of these blogs. They are not scriptures to be politically correct. Why is it all can critize others for being negative, and think that being positive is the only way to be? I tend to be positive, but I do call the kettle black when it is black IN MY OPINION.

I am glad to hear that he has a 2nd chance at life and that he is gonna go back to school keep up the good work and you are in my prayers.

hey waterfrontdean get a life i think that jason is at just as much fault as nate then both were in the wrong for doing it but a lesson is learn and it was a accident and said that jason might spend time in jail for it but there nothing no one can do then made them choice so then both are paying for it now nate spent along time in the hospital cant really remember anything and jason looking at jail time. and then did this so that other kids know about and then are hoping then can stop it but kids are going to be kids i can be the first to tell you that i did stupid stuff that i have seen kids die from and now i look back on it and think what was i think kids think oh that not going to happen to me and it wont and it does. didnt you mom every teach you if you dont have something nice to say then dont say nothing at all so fine something else to do go buy the gazette so no one has to listen to you complain about everything it good to see something better in the gazette beside all the flooding.

Wow, no matter what the story, someone is going to complain about it.

Since there has been no update in Jason's part in this (the article say's his court date is scheduled for August 28th), the Gazette has concentrated on something that has happened...that Nathan has come home (thankfully). Mentioning the benefit pertains to this story, and has nothing to do with "pulling at heartstrings".
I'll bet that the community will be made aware of what happens at Jason's court date, at which time the arguments will resume. Until then, I thank the Gazette for writing an informing article. I wish the best for both boys involved, and good luck to their families.

Sarah...I agree with you that things get taken "too far" as far as these things are concerned, but I disagree that this article was "simple". It was meant to tug at the heart strings, and I feel that is was completely one sided.

Nathan didn't "premeditate" his injuries, but Nathan and Jason both knew that there were risks involved, and that people in the past have died from practicing the same behavoir. I almost can guarentee if there weren't mental reprocussions, these two boys would be sitting around giggling about their "near death" occurance. It is just too bad that they didn't get the chance to make a bad decision and come out of it unscathed. But, we can all pray until our minds explode, this will not prevent others from doing the same thing, nor will it prevent people from taking sides as far as these boys are concerned. Yes, Jason deserves a tickey, I agree, reckless driving with causing great bodily harm, jail time? Nope. Ticket and that pang in his gut for the rest of his life are sufficient punishment in my eyes.

Waterfrontdean: Nate and Jason are both very equally at fault. Nate has a physical punishment for it. Jason may have a jail sentence for it although he may not deserve it. But do you honestly think it is right for Nate to have injuries and Jason to not get any kind of punishment at all? Yes guilt is a pretty severe punishment but still they both knew it was wrong so why should Jason walk away without at least getting a ticket.

I think you're all crazy and taking things more than a bit too far. This article is supposed to be a simple update on an injured boy's condition. Please just leave it at that.

water, why does this seem to be your fight for Jason? I am assuming you know Jason.

For the sake of closure, I hope he gets nothing more than a ticket.

Can we be done with the fighting here. The article is about a boys recovery from a tragic accident. Let's embrace it for what it is.

HELLY....I totally disagree with you, Jason doesn't ONLY HAVE TO DO A YEAR in huber....Jason has a life time sentence....of guilt.

waterfrontdean- Don't get me wrong I do agree with you to a certain extent. I agree that Nathan should take some responcibility in what happened. But the difference between Nathan and Jason is that Nathan now has problems with his brain because of the accident and Jason will just have to do a year in huber. Tell me what sounds better to you?

Of course I am happy that this boy did not lose his life, but I don't think that he deserves anymore concern than the other boy. They both were involved, both of their lives were changed FOREVER, and it seems one is being treated like a saint while the other is being treated as a criminal. In my heart, I don't feel that is right. Guilt can be the worst life sentence a person can have. At least the injured boy doesn't remember the injury, the other boy doesn't have that luxury. I feel all these boys deserve is prayer, a fundraiser is a little much in my eyes. My brother was a drunk driver about five years ago and hit a tree and is in the same mental condition as this boy as well as being in a coma for months. I didn't see the community throwing him a "welcome home Party". I believe both, my brother and this boy's actions were equally irresponsible. People make ill decisions all of the time, that is what makes us human, and as long as we repent, we are forgiven. But celebrity status is not deserved for this nor for my brother. Their decision has determined their future, just as the decision of a hard worker determines their future.

wow...you're quite the guy waterfront dean! Are you by chance single??

I am so relieved that Nate is doing better! I can't wait to see him back at school. It is a shame that Jason has to go to court I don't think Nate wants that but whatever has to be done I guess...

waterfrontdean- what's the point in commenting on this story if you have nothing positive to say? Maybe in your perfect world "stupid" things like this don't happen but unfortunately in the real world it can happen. When I was a freshman in highschool a senior girl was killed car surfing. It took a long time for my classmates to recover from losing her. I'm very happy to hear that Nathan is doing well and I wish nothing but the best to him and his family.

OH COME ON'' this is a wonderful article to let
the community and the young adults he went to
school with know that he is doing the best he can. This is the type of new I want to hear more of.. if you would like to hlep more you can donate to his fund raiser.. if not just be quiet and pray . Somethin like this never happens to your child and learn , what can happen in a split second of what they call a accident . of course there still friends it was a accident ...and no I do not know eighter one of these boys.. nor the families of the boys...many blessings to all concerned.

I am thrilled that Nate is doing better and will be able to go back to school in the fall. Best wishes as you continue your recovery.

Are he and Jason Klein still friends?

Gee waterfrontdean: do you always spread sunshine wherever you go? Dont you have any kittens to mutilate or small children to maim?

waterfrontdean: I is a genius!! Read before you commment!

I believe that includes the 8 months before the accident that he can't rememeber.

The "year" they are talking about is from the ~8 months he doesn't remember before the accident, plus the time from the accident in May until the present. It's a positive article, and negative comments aren't needed just because you lack reading comprehension skills.

Keep up the fight! So good to hear of the excellent progress.