Illinois man goes extra miles to honor fallen Orfordville soldier

By ANN MARIE AMES   Saturday, May 5, 2012
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— Larry Eckhardt said he’s just a visitor.

You wouldn’t have known it in Orfordville on Friday. Eckhardt of Little York, Ill., fit in the tight-knit community just as he has in dozens of small towns around the Midwest.

At Eckhardt’s direction, folks lined up like spokes on a wheel between his trailer and nearby pickup trucks. They worked seamlessly side by side, just as they do at so many community events in the small Rock County village.

Friday’s task was heavy with sadness, but they worked together as amicably as they would if they were setting up tables for the church potluck or hanging barn decorations at the 4-H fair.

Eckhardt’s neatly rolled American flags flowed down the lines of hands and were stacked carefully in the trucks. When all of the more than 2,000 flags were loaded, the friends and neighbors climbed into the backs of the trucks and headed into town, just as they have done a million times before.

One by one, Orfordville residents planted the flags in honor of neighbor, classmate, fellow veteran, brother and friend, Cpl. Benjamin Neal.

Hundreds of people placed the flags Friday evening in honor of Neal, the 21-year-old man who died April 25 in Afghanistan while on his second tour of duty.

Flags were placed along highways 11 and 213 in Orfordville as well as along the drive at Newcomer Silverthorn Chapel on the Hill. Flags also were placed at St. William Catholic Church in Janesville, where Neal’s funeral will take place Tuesday, and at Holy Cross Cemetery in Evansville, where a private service will take place.

Neal was the son of Don and Trisha Neal, who own a dairy farm in Spring Valley Township near the village. Neal was married to Emily Neal (formerly Blaxill). His siblings include Bradley, Becca, Brendan, Brooke and Bridgette, according to the obituary his family submitted to The Gazette.

Neal graduated from Parkview High School in 2009. As a student, he was active in wrestling, 4-H and FFA.

His contribution to the small community is memorialized this week around the village on signs thanking him and his family for his service. Members of the American Legion set up the Legion’s funeral flags, which normally are saved for Memorial Day and Labor Day events.

Eckhardt is an elected official and the owner of an apartment complex in his Illinois village of about 300 people 45 miles south of the Quad Cities.

He’s much better known for his other job as “the flag man.” On his own dime, driving his own decorated van and trailer, Eckhardt drives to small, Midwest towns and helps friends, neighbors and relatives set up flags in honor of fallen soldiers.

Eckhardt said he was inspired to start sharing flags after attending a military funeral seven years ago where he saw only 50 flags.

“I didn’t think that was right,” Eckhardt said.

He bought 50 more flags. And another 50. He ended up with a trailer full.

He said he calls ahead to the soldiers’ families and communities to get permission.

“The thing is, I’m a visitor to this town,” Eckhardt said. “I want to feel like I can come back under good circumstances.”

He contacts local American Legions, Veterans of Foreign Wars posts or other service organizations to help him get volunteers organized.

He does it because the soldiers died to protect things that are easy take for granted, such as the simple right to travel between states to pay respects, he said.

“In a lot of these countries you can’t just jump in a vehicle and go to another state or province,” Eckhardt said.

Last year, he provided free flag services in 30 communities. In April, he did seven, he said.

He has found people in Orfordville to be welcoming and patient.

“I warned everybody it was going to be chaos for the first 15, 20 minutes,” Eckhardt said. “But they hung in there.”

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wiggle
May 8, 2012 at 8:45 p.m.
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Mrspowers - that is not what I ment. (Tyler had a private funeral per family request.)
As the year anniversary of their son's death approaches, it must be horrorible to read many stories of yet another local young man making the ultimate sacrifice.

mrspowers
May 8, 2012 at 8:12 a.m.
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Woodsman, Tyler Kreinz was a 21-year-old soldier from Beloit who was killed in Afghanistan last year. I'm assuming wiggle's point was that this was not done for him. Perhaps Mr. Eckhardt was not aware, or was busy somewhere else. I'm sure he would have honored him the same way had he known. God bless both Tyler and Ben. They were braver than any of us.

JOJO
May 7, 2012 at 10:42 a.m.
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wislady: the video you did for Ben and his family is so beautiful. It made me cry. Thank you.

wislady
May 6, 2012 at 9:56 p.m.
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Welcome Home Ben.wmv

http://youtu.be/85GQblp7GOA

woodsman
May 6, 2012 at 6:25 p.m.
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Anybody know what this Tyler did??

luvujvl
May 6, 2012 at 12:18 p.m.
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Thank you, Mr. Eckhardt, for such a beautiful display of respect for this fallen soldier and his family. Peace and comfort to the Neal family - your son was indeed a hero.

TempleofGod
May 6, 2012 at 12:03 p.m.
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They would be thinking What type of a person would try to turn this beautiful display of pride and honor into something other than just that.

God bless all the men and women who serve to protect our freedom.

The ultimate sacrifice. That is pure selflessness.

wiggle
May 6, 2012 at 10:44 a.m.
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I just have to wonder what the parents of Tyler Kreinz are thinking.

babaloo1
May 6, 2012 at 10:08 a.m.
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The flags were beautiful and a fitting tribute. They took my breath away when I first saw them all.

vnvet7071
May 6, 2012 at 7:51 a.m.
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Way to go Mr Eckhardt. As a veteran, I salute you for all that you do.This is what Thanks is all about.To Bens family, I feel your pain.Right now it's hard to feel the pride through all that pain, but it will be there,more and more so as time goes on.May God Bless.

dukes
May 5, 2012 at 10:37 p.m.
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Awesome example of dedication and patriotism!

God bless America.

God bless Benjamin Neal (RIP) and his family.

Thank you for serving, Ben!

ladulce
May 5, 2012 at 9:48 p.m.
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Beautiful job, Mr. Ekhard. I am so sorry for the loss of Mr. Neal.

The Gazette's gallery pictures are incredible. Moved me to tears.

May you all be blessed.

lkgamble
May 5, 2012 at 7:46 p.m.
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I would like to say Thank You to Larry. What you did was so amazing.. No thanks can be enough.. You helped Orfordville give a Hero's homecoming to Ben and his family. Which they deserve.
Thank you again,
Liz Knox , Orfordville

JozeMozes
May 5, 2012 at 6:09 p.m.
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C130 rollin down the strip
Airborne Trooper
Gonna take a little trip
Stand up, hook up,
Shuffle to the door
Jump right out and count to four
And if my chute don't open wide
I have another one by my side
And if that chute don't open round
I'll be the first one on the ground.
If I die on the combat zone
Box me up and ship me home.
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To the family of Benjamin I would like to offer my heartfelt condolences. An airborne trooper is a special breed indeed and how proud you must have been when he completed his training at Benning.
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I'm deeply humbled by his sacrifice and equally by yours. May our creator grant peace to you in time to come. He has already pinned a golden chute to Ben's chest.
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wislady
May 5, 2012 at 5:32 p.m.
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It was quite amazing to see such a beautiful tribute to this young man.

Condolences to the family of...

Army Cpl. Ben Neal
82 Airborne Division

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