Ian Johnson overcomes loss of parents by following their advice
MILTON In the summer of 2006, Ian Johnson was on top of the world.
The 13-year-old wrestling phenom won his sport’s elusive triple crown by capturing state titles in Greco-Roman, Freestyle and Folkstyle tournaments.
Johnson’s world, however, was thrown for a reversal Dec. 29, 2006. His parents, K-Tal and Shelly, died in an traffic accident in Indiana. Ian was a passenger in the back seat as the closely knit family returned home over the holidays.
Ian escaped with minor cuts and bruises, but time is the only treatment for his emotional wounds.
How do you ever replace the two most important people in your life, especially when you never got the chance to say goodbye?
“More than anything, I miss being together with them, especially at family events,” Ian said of his parents. “That’s where we got to see everybody, and everybody was having a good time.
“It’s hard, but I’m a happy person because of what they taught me. Now, my job is to live my life to the fullest, make the best out of each and every situation, and make them proud.”
Mom and Dad would be more than proud of what their son has accomplished—both on and off the wrestling mat.
Ian capped off a stellar individual sophomore season at Milton High School by finishing second at 160 pounds in the WIAA Division 1 state tournament last weekend. Underclassmen tend to dominate the lower weights at the state meet, but it’s rare for a 160-pound sophomore to advance to the state finals.
Where do Ian’s athletic drive and determination come from?
Ian can thank his father.
A tireless worker with tree trunks for legs and a chiseled upper body, K-Tal was a three-sport star and American Legion Athletic Medal winner at Janesville Parker in 1982. Ian is a spitting image.
“I don’t ever get tired of hearing that, and I hear it about every day,” Ian said of his strong physical resemblance to his father.
Ian has dealt with his parents’ death in his own way. He says a prayer before each match, telling his parents he loves them and promising to do his best. With everything he has been through, he has learned to handle losing—as rare as it—beyond his years.
“There’s no point of throwing a tantrum if you lose,” Ian said. “Mom and Dad taught me that there are lessons to be learned in everything we do, and so that’s what I try to do after a loss. I learn from it.
“Dan Gable said that if you wrestle, everything else in life is easy. I believe that.”
K-Tal was a firefighter in Madison, while Shelly worked as a unit clerk at Mercy Hospital. Ian wants nothing more than to follow in his father’s footsteps and become a firefighter.
The outpouring of support after the accident was immense. The Madison Fire Department, where K-Tal was a member, was at the top of the list.
K-Tal’s comrades haven’t forgotten about Ian, either. After Saturday night’s championship bout, Ian’s vehicle was blocked by a fire truck. A parade of Madison firefighters got off the truck to tell Ian how proud they were of him and how proud his parents would’ve been.
“With everything that has happened, I’ve got a whole new family out of this,” Ian said. “A lot of good friends.”
Ian lives with his grandmother, Shelly’s mom, Vicky. Todd and Sally Herrington also serve as guardians.
Ian Johnson’s world changed Dec. 29, 2006. Wrestling, however, has offered him an escape from the chaos of that day. His success suggests the tragedy has made him stronger.

Mar 26, 2010 at 8:05 a.m.
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Yes it is nice when you read a story like this and tears fill your eyes. God Bless you Ian, and God Bless your Parents for doing such a Great Job with you.
Mar 11, 2010 at 2:46 p.m.
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What a great young man-I'm certain his parents are proud of him!
Mar 8, 2010 at 4:47 p.m.
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What an awesome young man you are! You are a great inspiration to all and a great mentor for other kids! Keep up the great work, WOW!!!
Mar 7, 2010 at 1:39 p.m.
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Congrats Ian! I'm sure your mom and dad are very proud of you even though they cannot be here physically.
Mar 5, 2010 at 10:53 p.m.
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You go, Ian--you are an inspiration to all!
Mar 5, 2010 at 9:37 p.m.
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Fantastic story about a fantastic youth! I remember the articles in the Gazette and other Wisconsin newspapers when the tragic accident occurred. And, I've wondered how the couple's son was doing. Thanks for the update. Ian, I've never met you and I did not know either of your parents, but I am very, very impressed by all three of you. Don't ever lose your great attitude!
Mar 5, 2010 at 2:30 p.m.
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Wow! At 16 years old, Ian totally has his head on straight! At 34, I'd be a mess if anything happened to my parents!
Go get'em, Tiger!
Mar 5, 2010 at 11:13 a.m.
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I know my eyes got a little moist.
Mar 5, 2010 at 10:36 a.m.
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Good Luck this weekend! Station 8B, MFD.
Mar 5, 2010 at 10:35 a.m.
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How can you read this article and not get tears in your eyes? What a strong kid.
Mar 5, 2010 at 10:34 a.m.
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Good Luck this weekend Ian. MFD station 8 will be cheering you and the Red Hawks on. Your attitude and outlook on life is beyond your years, you should be proud!
Mar 5, 2010 at 10:13 a.m.
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Great job Ian! I went to school with both your parents- both outstanding people! I am sure they are very proud of you!
Mar 5, 2010 at 10:07 a.m.
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Ian had soaked up every bit of goodness from his Mom and Dad in those short 13 years. Enough to carry him on and make him the AMAZING young man he's turning out to be, and will continue to be, They are watching you, Ian, I am sure they couldn't be prouder! Live Life to the Fullest!
Love Ya Kid!
Mar 5, 2010 at 9:50 a.m.
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Great job, Ian!
I didn't know your dad, but I remember your mom well. She was a great person - sweet, bright and funny - and it's good to see you're doing her proud.
Mar 5, 2010 at 9:47 a.m.
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Faith for the future. Ian is blessed to have had more quality parenting in his 13 years than most kids get in their lifetime. What a great example of character and faith in a young man. You do your generation proud, Ian.
Mar 5, 2010 at 9:22 a.m.
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Congratulation's Ian.
You are an amazing young man. Keep up the great work.
Mar 4, 2010 at 11:35 p.m.
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go ian go u are 1 hellva kid
Mar 4, 2010 at 10:07 p.m.
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Keep going Ian!! You seem like a super kid!!!
Mar 4, 2010 at 8:08 p.m.
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Ian, Your a great kid. We are very proud of you. Wish we could be there to see you wrestle.
We love you Ian.
Aunt Dailan and Alex
Mar 4, 2010 at 6:54 p.m.
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This is an awesome story! Hats off to this young man, I wish him the very best.
His parents raised him the right way and I am sure they are very proud of him!
Mar 4, 2010 at 4:36 p.m.
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What a great story. Congrats Ian!
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