Prom Turn-Around turns high school girls into princesses

By CATHERINE IDZERDA ( Contact )   Monday, April 19, 2010
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Dress shoes are lined up and waiting to be taken at the Parker Closet.

Dress shoes are lined up and waiting to be taken at the Parker Closet.

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Parker senior Amber West looks over her choice of prom dress in the mirror as she is helped by senior Lauren Hayden at the Parker Closet.

Parker senior Amber West looks over her choice of prom dress in the mirror as she is helped by senior Lauren Hayden at the Parker Closet.

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Parker High sophomore Katie Middleton sorts through a rack of prom dresses at the Parker Closet at Parker High School.

Parker High sophomore Katie Middleton sorts through a rack of prom dresses at the Parker Closet at Parker High School.

— A night of dreams is a wonderful thing.

But it shouldn’t have to cost $200.

On Saturday, Parker High School teacher Deri Wahlert and a group of students helped make prom more affordable for everyone by hosting a “Prom Turn-Around.”

The goal?

Make sure everybody who wanted to go to prom could go to prom.

The approach?

Eliminate the cost of the most expensive item of prom protocol: the dress.

Wahlert helps manage the Parker Closet, a room filled with clothes, school supplies, shoes and other basic necessities for homeless and low-income students.

For the Prom Turn-Around, she solicited dress donations from the Janesville Women’s Club, former and current Parker students, her friends and family— and pretty much everyone she knew.

As a result, the band rehearsal room at Parker High School on Saturday was full of frothy dresses, sparkly shoes and smiling girls.

The dresses were free.

“For girls, there’s no way they can go to prom unless they get a dress,” Wahlert said.

Dresses range from $50 to $300 and more. Then there are alterations, shoes, jewelry, makeup and hair styling.

With so many local people struggling economically, a prom dress becomes an impossible luxury.

Which leads to the next question: Considering everything, how important is prom?

“Would I have survived if I didn’t go to prom? Yes, of course,” Wahlert said.

But prom is undeniably important to many high school girls.

Early in the week, Wahlert was with one of her students when she tried on a dress.

“She put on this big puffy dress, and it fit her like a glove, and she said, ‘I’m a princess. For the first time in my life, I’m a princess,’” Wahlert said.

Lauren Hayden, 18, Parker senior and levelheaded young woman, said that prom was “super important to me.”

Hayden was last year’s prom queen. This year, she is helping Wahlert with the dresses.

“It’s so important. It’s a girl’s night to feel special,” Hayden said. “I didn’t want other girls who wanted to go to not be able to go because they couldn’t afford a dress.”

Senior Amber West, 17, who was also helping out, agreed with her friend. Last year, as a junior, she paid a serious amount for her dress, but this year, she found something for $22. Prom is often a bigger deal for the juniors than the seniors, she explained.

Hayden paid about $300 for last year’s dress. Add alterations, shoes and everything else, and the final total was about $400.

They both understand how the economy is affecting their classmates’ families.

“People are trying to spend less,” West said.

The prom committee also made an effort to keep ticket prices low: $25 for a couple and $15 for a single.

Hayden also wanted to recognize the generosity of local business sponsors, such as Centerway Floral, the Armory, Nedrebo’s, , Cost Cutters and other businesses that donated goods and services.

“Even though times are hard, they helped us out,” Hayden said.

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prevention
Apr 20, 2010 at 10:06 p.m.
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Way to go, kids! Keep up the great work of helping your fellow students! Keep it up with everything outside of school too!

gmretirednow
Apr 20, 2010 at 12:22 p.m.
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Super great idea. For a dress worn for only a few hours, this is so nice to do for the girls and also the guys too. The tux is also expensive. Have a great time all of you students!!

ktaustin
Apr 20, 2010 at 11:25 a.m.
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I never went to prom and never missed it. My wife on the other hand would have wanted to go, and if the subject comes up will bring it up that I never asked her to go (in good sport). Although she was already graduated at the time so I don't think she was too upset about it; it just didn't occur to me.

Curious how some of the local dress shops feel about this; did they donate to the cause, do they feel like they're losing business?

Macdaddy
Apr 20, 2010 at 9:33 a.m.
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Craig's Prom is at the Pontiac Convention Center

ajvlresident
Apr 20, 2010 at 9:01 a.m.
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Parker's Prom is May 1st at the Janesville Country Club from 8-midnight.

Craig's Prom is May 15th. I am not sure the location or times.

SarahB1
Apr 20, 2010 at 8:12 a.m.
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When are the proms for Parker and Craig scheduled? Also, where in Janesville do most prom couples go for dinner?

SarahB1
Apr 20, 2010 at 8:10 a.m.
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Beautiful job by all involved!

happycamper
Apr 20, 2010 at 8:07 a.m.
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These girls have worked hard to make this a success. I saw them early morning on the news (Madison)promoting. Good Job!

evansvillehousewife
Apr 19, 2010 at 11:11 p.m.
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True, prom is expensive. I am glad these young ladies have an alternative to spending hard to earn money on a dress they will wear once.
I had a personal alternative myself- me and my date made 'alternative plans' rather than blow money on prom. Two decades later, we've never regretted it. We had a great night. It's really what you make of it- a lot of kids never go and never miss it.

Spunkmeyer
Apr 19, 2010 at 10:54 p.m.
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Community. That's what it's all about.

parker_helper
Apr 19, 2010 at 9:33 p.m.
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The boys had a chance to register for free tuxedos from Nedrebos if they attended.

neonnate1002
Apr 19, 2010 at 7:49 p.m.
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what about the guys? last i checked their stuff was not cheap either. and can be just as costly

intrigued
Apr 19, 2010 at 6:14 p.m.
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What an awesome program. Kudos to everyone involved.

justme46
Apr 19, 2010 at 5:01 p.m.
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Very cool! Amber is my niece! Hi, Amber! I am glad you get to go to prom and more proud you are helping out! I didn't go to prom. Sometimes I wish I had but by 17, I had dropped out of school. Bad situation. Oh well, I got my HSED in 1989 and am now in school. So girls and boys, don't quit on school, it is fun and provides many, many happy memories! JMO

frogger
Apr 19, 2010 at 4:10 p.m.
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Very cool!

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