Going the extra mile is standard for Orfordville teacher
ORFORDVILLE Three students rush into teacher Mary Stelter’s classroom during lunchtime at Orfordville’s Parkview High School.
Stelter asks if they have eaten, but none responds.
She looks at the girls knowingly, writes a check and hands it to them.
“Go get lunch,” she tells them, as the girls dash out the door.
The woman with the big heart not only feeds hungry teens from her own pocket but also gives them unconditional love beyond the classroom. For many, her guiding hand has made all the difference.
Consider Danielle Trezek of Janesville. The young woman says she never would have graduated from Parkview if not for Stelter. And she definitely would not have a job as a security officer without the dedicated teacher.
“I would be nowhere without her,” Trezek says.
“She is like a second Mom to me.”
Trezek had a tough time in high school. She was expelled twice and had two children by the time she graduated.
But Stelter never gave up on the young woman.
“From the day I met her, I saw something wonderful inside her that was struggling to come out,” Stelter says.
Stelter, on her own time, went to tutor Trezek at her home when Trezek was expelled. Stelter also paid to get her home-schooling. Because of the extra effort, Trezek finished school half a year early and graduated with her class of 2005.
Stelter also took Trezek to parenting classes, babysat her children and helped her enroll at Blackhawk Technical College.
“She went way above and beyond the call of duty,” Trezek says. “I don’t know where I would be today without her. Mary Stelter has made a huge difference to me and to so many kids out there.”
Spend a few minutes in Stelter’s special education classroom, and one will see her love flow. Her students are challenged with emotional and cognitive disabilities. But that does not mean Stelter gives them easy rides.
She expects them to push themselves and succeed.
Karen Coakley, Stelter’s co-worker, says, “Mary’s job description is like no other. If kids are in the hospital, she brings them homework. If they need special help, she invites them to her house. She loves every minute of her work.”
Stelter often invites students to her house for supper and homework around the dining room table, where her own two teenagers are doing assignments.
Stelter doesn’t mind bringing students home “because it is so wonderful to see them get good grades,” she explains. “A lot of my students come with the attitude they can’t do anything. When they succeed, it is so incredible to watch them change.”
The 41-year-old Stelter has taught special education students at Parkview for 13 years.
“They are students who need more,” she says. “I was once a student like that.”
Stelter graduated from Beloit’s Turner High School. She would not be where she is today if a special teacher, Christine Nelson, had not gone the extra mile to help her.
Today, Stelter gladly straps on her gym shoes to go the extra lap for a student in need.
Mary Stelter
Age: 41
Community: Orfordville
Occupation: Teacher at Parkview High School
Family: Husband, Eric; two children, Bradly, 15, and Molly, 13
Favorite hobby: Horseback riding
A favorite CD: “The Women of Christmas”
A favorite movie: “Gone with the Wind”
A favorite book: All the Harry Potter books
Role model: Christine Nelson, a former teacher
Three words that best describe you: Energetic, compassionate, giving

Jan 24, 2008 at 2:19 p.m.
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I, too, have known Mary since elementary school. Sadly, after graduation, life happened and we lost touch. Thanks to the Janesville Gazette's 50 Who Matter, I was able to find her again and hopefully catch up on the last 20 years. She's obviously done wonderful things for her students...keep up the good work, Mary!
Jan 21, 2008 at 6:46 p.m.
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Please stay focused. This was an article about how a teacher goes above and beyond for her students. Her being such a caring and involved teacher has nothing to do with salary or picketting. Let this be about what it is: An amazing teacher that deserves credit for being just that.
Jan 21, 2008 at 6:42 p.m.
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This is wonderful. It is so nice to see a teacher who truly care and loves what she is doing, and it shows. So many teachers whine and cry about all the things they do out side school hours and here is someone doing it because she cares.
We need more like her.
Jan 21, 2008 at 6:05 p.m.
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I'll bet she doesn't whine about her salary or pickett in front of the school before class.....
Jan 21, 2008 at 5:15 p.m.
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Wow Mary! You've been a busy busy woman. I'm so proud of you! Who would have thought, back in 4H, that this is where I would find you again. Keep up the great work and know that you are molding many of those fine minds just like Mrs. Nelson for you!!!
Jan 21, 2008 at 12:14 p.m.
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I have known and loved her since the third grade, she is not only an incredible teacher but an incredible friend. She should be teacher of the year, her students can call on her day and night, on vacation, any time they need her and they do!
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